Healthy Relationships and Our Changing Bodies

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infoWhy this? Organisation, help-seeking, empathy, and healthy friendship skills help us build a secure sense of belonging and manage everyday challenges. Understanding consent, relationship boundaries, and puberty also enables us to respond safely and confidently to physical, emotional, and social change.

scheduleWhy now? At the start of Year 7, this unit extends familiar learning from Key Stage 2 while addressing the greater independence, new relationships, and bodily changes associated with transition to secondary school. It establishes foundations for later work on stress, online interaction, resilience, and personal safety.

Starting high school usually involves more subjects, more teachers, different classrooms and more homework, which requires students to be more independent and organised than in primary school.
Strong teacher–student relationships help students feel safe to ask questions, share worries and take learning risks, which can improve both wellbeing and academic progress.
Being organised for school – for example using a timetable, packing your bag the night before and recording homework – reduces stress, saves time and supports both mental and physical health, such as better sleep and fewer last‑minute panics.
Friendships at school are important because they provide belonging, emotional support, fun and encouragement, which can help students adjust to new environments like high school.
Effective strategies for making new friends include starting simple conversations, asking open questions, listening with interest, joining in shared activities and appropriately sharing information about yourself.
Belonging to a group can give people identity, support and shared purpose, but it can also bring risks such as peer pressure, exclusion of others and feeling forced to follow group behaviours you are not comfortable with.
Common reasons people avoid asking for help include feeling embarrassed, fearing judgement, not wanting to be a burden, believing they should cope alone or not knowing who to ask.
Positive outcomes of asking for help can include feeling less alone, getting practical solutions, staying safer and preventing problems from getting worse over time.
Consent is agreement by choice, made with the freedom and capacity to make that choice.
Consent must be specific to a particular action, can be withdrawn at any time, and must never be assumed from silence, previous consent, or the existence of a relationship.
Consent is not valid when someone is pressured or threatened, is asleep or unconscious, or lacks the capacity to choose because of alcohol, drugs, or another condition.
Everyday consent concerns agreement to non-sexual actions, while sexual consent concerns agreement to sexual activity and is also governed by age-of-consent law.
In England and Wales, the legal age of consent to sexual activity is 16 for everyone, a child under 13 cannot legally consent to any sexual activity, and it is illegal for an adult in a legally defined position of trust to engage in sexual activity with someone under 18 in their care.
Healthy relationships are characterised by mutual respect, trust, honesty, good communication, shared decision‑making, support for each other's goals and clear, respected boundaries.
Unhealthy relationships may involve controlling behaviour, repeated lying, disrespect, put‑downs, fear, pressure to do things you do not want to do, or conflicts that are never fairly resolved.
Common causes of conflict in friendships include misunderstandings, rumours or gossip, jealousy, broken promises, feeling left out and differences in values or expectations.
Empathy is the ability to notice and understand another person's feelings and point of view, and then respond in a caring and appropriate way.
The 'head, heart, hands, mouth, boot' strategy encourages people to think about what they are thinking (head), feeling (heart), doing (hands), saying (mouth) and whether they should stay or step away (boot) in order to improve a relationship.
The four A.L.E.C. steps of an 'R U OK?' conversation are Ask, Listen, Encourage action and Check‑in, which guide someone through supporting a person who may be struggling.
Puberty is the stage of life when a child's body develops into an adult body capable of reproduction, triggered by hormonal changes in the body and occurring at different ages for different people. Common physical changes in puberty for most boys include growth spurts, broader shoulders, voice deepening, increased body and facial hair, sweating and skin changes, and growth of the penis and testicles.
Common physical changes in puberty for most girls include growth spurts, breast development, widening hips, increased body hair, sweating and skin changes, and the start of menstruation (periods).

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Create and follow a basic organisational system for school, such as using a timetable, to‑do list and bag‑packing routine, so that I arrive at lessons on time with the correct equipment and homework completed.
Use at least two specific strategies to start and develop new friendships, such as joining group activities, offering help, suggesting a shared activity or sharing something about my interests.
Analyse a group I belong to by listing how it gives me belonging and support, identifying any pressures or risks, and describing my role in that group.
Demonstrate empathetic and supportive communication in role‑plays, including using active listening, reflecting back feelings, and using caring, non‑judgemental language, for example when practising an 'R U OK?' A.L.E.C. conversation.

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